最近這幾個晚上都作惡夢,害我白天都精神不振.
應該是最近壓力比較大吧...
昨天臨睡前去 malaysiabrides.com 的forum八卦.
看了以下這兩篇post之後,睡覺時就連續發了兩個惡夢.
夢見我的婚禮一團糟,賓客們都到齊了且開席了,新郎哥卻還沒到....
穿著婚紗很尿急卻一直找不到廁所....
還有很多..很多...甚至夢到至亲去世,在夢里哭到醒來時胸口還在痛!
醒過來後,心裡還難過了很久,很久... 原來是去一個很愛的人是那麼心痛的...
好了,和你們分享那兩個害我看了發惡夢的post:
A few years back, a friend of my brother got married in Ipoh. The bridal car is a luxury car owned by the bride's ex. After being decorated, the ex drove the bridal car to the groom's house. At night, during the bachelor party the ex said he has something to do and took the bridal car out. He did not return.
The next morning, everyone was anxious as there was no bridal car. Everyone tried to search for the driver but he went MIA. It was running late. So, no choice, the groom had to use his own car as bridal car. No ribbons or decorations what so ever.
Thus, they started out to the bride's house. The 'heng tai' didn't know each other that well as they are friends from different stages of the groom's life. Most of them do not know the roads in Ipoh that well. So they just follow one another. After a few turnings and quite a long journey, finally they made it to the bride's house. The heng tai took all the gifts including the roast pig and put on the table in the bride's house prepared for such purpose. Then they sat waiting as the groom and some other heng tai has not arrived. After a while, only then they realised that they have gone to the wrong house!! They couldn't get the gifts back as this family say it is bad luck to have the gifts taken away. These heng tai got to wait at the wrong house till someone 'rescued' them.
By this time, it was running very late and the bride's family were very anxious. The bride herself was almost in tears. This happened a few years back where handphones were not as common as it is now. So, there's no way to contact the groom or the heng tai. Finally, the groom arrived and to everyone's horror, he came in a black iswara! Everyone was very angry as this is considered bad luck and back omen. Somemore the car was not decorated at all. And also, there was no gifts and no roast pig.
The groom tried to explain about the original bridal car but the bride got very angry as the car and the driver is her ex and she thought the groom tried to talk bad about her friend. They quarrelled in front of everyone and finally the wedding was cancelled.
After this incident, my brother always say,'never trust a partner's ex'
Posted by : fluene @ malaysiabrides.comMy Fren book the restaurant (can't remember the name, but it is at a shopping mall in Kepong) for about 30++ tables.. There was another couple who book at the same time about 20 table. The restaurant first promise them that they will have a partition and separate stages; they would not even have to cross path...
[Mind you they dun know each other]
On that day my fren (lets call him Red) and this other couple (Pink) ended up sharing the stages (2 names on the decor), 2 different colours table cloths (red and pink). No partitions.. it was open concept. Thank god, the decor was similar... cannot imagine if it is red vs green..
When i first arrived there, i was late (frens semua sudah masuk) somemore there were two identical receptions table.. and me being banana went to the wrong reception table.. lucky angpow did not give wrong..
It was started becoming funny that the MC (from the restaurant) announced ok.. ppl from Red table clap hand, red couple entering.... then he said ppl from Pink table clap hand, pink couple entering....Wa lau leh....
Ppl banana like me who dun really understand Mandarin ; kept on clapping hand.. (somemore thought wah.. my fren's wife so nice sharing her big day with another girl)...
[it was until yum seng time when he came to our table that we know the story...]
Another funny thing was that the song "Final Countdown" was played twice during the walk in. Dun know it was the liquor or the comedic situation... but ppl knowing the song bursting out laughing... sort of like the last hurrah, final coutdown to last moment of freedom.. ok we were drunk early..
Then came the toast... red table goes first.. All the well wishes, yum seng, etc... then pink table; same goes...so most banana ppl from both side just continue clapping and toasting the wrong couple... it was confusing..
The VCD presentation was huh??!! it was not projected on the big screen (tak ada lah).. it was on the small TV on the wall.. so you strain your neck watching the small tv monitor... the thing was played in a loop.. so i mah watch loh... i saw Red pict, then Pink pict, then red, then pink.. (ok you get the picture..) In the end you dun know who is who... At one point was commenting that in this pict my fren looks good.. until ppl tell me, i was looking at the wrong groom.. aduh!
The Karaoke sessions, my fren specifically ask for no Karaoke.. the other side wants it... so like it or not, we sat through it.... There were not many great singers that nite...
I take my hats off to this fren of mine... He was cool and dignified throughout the night....
If it was me or FH, it would have been a noisy conclusion...
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